As a mother of an ADHD child, I know exactly how overwhelming days can be. To be expecting a call from the school every day, a detention note, a complaint from the teacher among with all the stress at home that the condition could cause if it’s not being controlled. Going from chaos to calm don't need to be a fairy tale. That was my life during the first years.
The very first step is being positive. The high percentage of misdiagnosis on ADHD cases could give you some relief. However, you know the symptoms are there, and can’t deny all the anxious they cause in your house. That’s why I’ll insist on this blog to isolate each symptom, and work on them one by one.
Addressing each behavior, sing and weakness is like building a tower. The stronger your foundations are, the taller it’ll be. And it’s possible. There are going to be rough days, and is then when you need to stick on your positivism. It not only will help you to keep on track but to be careful with your words and acts.
When helping your child to find his path through ADHD, staying calm and optimistic, bonds amazing ties and also provides the confidence needed.
A positive mind can achieve astounding things. When my son was 8 years old,
his 3rd grade teacher was very upset with him and his behavior in
the classroom. She had just bad things to say every day. He was forced (by her)
to sit outside during the recess, even during winter. Tears come to my face every
time I picture that. He couldn’t share
with his classmates or play to stay warm. It happened during almost all the
year.The teacher claimed to be worried about my son’s poor social life. She told me one day, that she felt sorry because he had no friends. And that was true. He just had a bunch of bullies after him.
In the other hand a positive speech was used by the next teacher on 4th grade. Not everything was perfect. I have to mention I was still working on the hyperactivity and trying and discarding other foods and vitamins.
His new teacher came to school every morning with a very positive attitude. Nice words for him and cheering him up. Also his 5th grade teachers worked on the same line and provide him with social skills’ workshop every week. We have a special place in our heart for them. All the encouraging, help and guidance were essential to keep me in one piece through the ride.
Avoiding toxic comments and people will help to keep you calm and focused on the goal.
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